How to Better Focus Time for iHelp and iAskforHelp

Given that it’s the era of iPhone, iPad, iThis and iThat, I thought that it would be interesting to add a few more iThings to the list. How about iHelp and iAskforhelp? These are very different yet equally important. We tend to lean more heavily towards one “i” than the other. Which direction do you gravitate towards?

Let’s dig deeper by asking some questions.


iHelp

  • When was the last time you helped someone?

  • Was it months ago? Years ago?

  • Was it today or yesterday?

  • Were you asked to help or did you volunteer to help?

  • How often do you find yourself in the helping mode?

  • Who do you help? Do you help family, friends, colleagues, or clients?

  • What are the benefits you receive from helping others? 

“It’s impossible to do everything ourselves.”
— Linda Samuels, CPO-CD®, CVOP™

iAskforhelp

  • When was the last time you asked for help?

  • Do you freely ask for help?

  • Do you feel guilty asking others for assistance?

  • Do you feel like things will get done better, faster, or more efficiently if you do them yourself?

  • When you aren’t sure about the next step, do you procrastinate or reach out for help?

  • What type of help are you most comfortable asking for? Is it for home repairs, life guidance, organizing help, or family care?

  • What type of help are you most uncomfortable asking for?

  • What prevents you from enlisting help?

  • Last time you asked for help, what was the outcome?

  • What are the benefits you receive by enlisting help?

While I would like to have a combination of both helping and enlisting help, I’m more often in the helping others mode between clients that are in need of organizing help, coordinating care as my mom ages in place, and my role as President for ICD.

Yet even though I’m often in the iHelp mode, I recognize the value of asking for help. It’s impossible to do everything ourselves. I’m a huge advocate of teams, especially building teams. The energy of a focused group can accomplish way more than the energy of one.

I’d love to hear your thoughts. What is your relationship to helping and enlisting help? Come join the conversation!

 
 
Enlisting HelpLinda SamuelsICD, clients, enlisting help, family, focus, friends, guilt, organizing, procrastinate, teams, time, volunteer7 Comments